Thursday, March 19, 2009

a proud parent. again.

I had another 'proud parent' moment this morning as I was giving the kids their breakfast. This one, just like the previous one, is a bit odd and may sound confusing coming from a 'christian' mother...but it made the corners of my mouth turn up and even warranted a phone call to James. As I put Rhys' toast in front of his growling tummy he chirped-up and said that he was in the mood for some music. Thinking that this would be a good opportunity to dust off some of his Cd's and play some headache inducing toddler sing-a-longs, I pulled a "God Rocks" CD off of the shelf and reluctantly asked Rhys if that was what he wanted to listen to. He scrunched-up his face, thought for a minute and said, "NO. I want to listen to Dad's songs. I like Dad's songs." So I happily placed "God Rocks" back on the shelf and pulled out a Tom Waits album and asked if he wanted to listen to this one. He enthusiastically said, "Yes" and began bopping his head around with 'Singapore' playing in the background. I was so happy. SO. HAPPY. I know that I will be cast some glances of disapproval over this proud moment; I should weed-out all things non-Christian (and thus devil-worshipping), I should hook-up some sort of brainwashing Veggie Tales marathon reminiscent of Clockwork Orange, and I should walk around my house forcing the kids to memorize scripture which focuses on the blessings we will receive when we are in the lords favor. I should. But let's get real here people; Jesus would have hung out with Tom Waits and we all know it.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

...there are no words...
I wanted to leave a comment in support of your non-clockwork-orange parenting style, but... there are no words. Only laughter. I think this is one of my favourite blog posts I have ever read. If I were to ever have children, I would SO be EXACTLY the same. :)

JuliaD said...

haha.
i would never ever be able to stay sane if i had to play kids' worship music to my own kids. (hypothetically speaking) awesome.

gavin said...

As a pastor, I endorse this parenting strategy. Entirely. Entirely. Entirely.

You're a model for me, like Tom himself.

one great quote...

"whenever i get gloomy with the state of the world, i think of the arrivals gate at heathrow airport. general opinion makes out that we live in a world of hatred and greed, i don't see that. seems to me that love is everywhere. often it's not articularly dignified or newsworthy, but it's always there. fathers and sons, mothers and daughters, boyfriends, girlfriends, old friends. when the planes hit the twin towers, i have reason to believe that none of the calls from the people on board were messages of hate or revenge, they were all messages of love. if you look for it, i've got a sneaky feeling you'll find that love actually is all around." -Love Actually